Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Finally made it to # 10

Well, the dare yesterday worked great!!!
When i got in the car i gave Jason 3 big kisses! I think he was already in a good mood, but we have gotten into the bad habit of not kissing each other hello anymore (sometimes we don't greet each other at all!!!!)
He started joking and talking to me about all kinds of things. The book was right! It totally set the mood for the ride home!!!
My goal is to greet him like this as often as possible, even if he's not in such a great mood! I'm hoping it will always set a lighter tone as soon as i get in the car (he picks me up everyday after work)
I was already in a good mood because of how great the dare went, but then he asked me if i wanted to go to trivia that night at the Dog and Duck. I told him I wanted to go but that my friend, Krista (who dates Rick, one of his new found friends) had asked us to go to Madra Rua the next night for St.Patty's day.
The problem with this is i could only do one or the other, not both. I needed to get Taylor one of the nights. He said it was my choice. I asked him if he was going out to trivia regardless of what i decided and he said "no, I'm only going if you are"!!!!
I was sooo happy!!! I told him that he could go to trivia if he wanted and I would stay home and no matter how much i tried to get him to go he wouldn't!!
It made me feel go that he was willing to stay home with me!
He knows i think he has been going out to much, even tho he usually invites me, like i said in my last blog, i have responsibilities at home and cant go out every single night!

So onto the next dare.....

The Lesson:
Love is unconditional

The Dare:
Do something out of the ordinary today for your spouse- something that proves (to you and to them) that your love is based on your choice and nothing else. Wash her car. Clean the kitchen. Buy his favorite dessert. Fold the laundry. Demonstrate love to them for the sheer joy of being their partner in marriage.

Well i always clean the kitchen and do the laundry, so those two wont help me. (I think he needs to read this book stat!!!)
His favorite dessert is probably an ice cream cake from Dairy Queen, but since we are working with only one car for the moment, it's going to be hard for me to surprise him with something like that.
He would LOVE for me to wash the car, but its been pretty rainy all week!
Ill either have to think of something else, or wait till it stops raining!!!
We'll see!

1 comment:

  1. OMG!...This made me soooo happy to read!!...I am sooo glad that this book is helping you guys!

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