Wednesday, December 15, 2010

10 Down 30 more to go!!

This week in my pregnancy:
We are at week 10 and are officially at fetus status which means “little one”
Hooray!!! We are now starting to look like a little baby with eyes lids, ears, fingers and toes instead of like a tadpole!!
I found a cool site that tells me this week:
The roller coaster of nausea may almost be over, but the roller coaster of emotions (happy, sad, crying, mad; and that's all in the last 30 seconds) is just revving up. Also the Baby's brain will make an incredible 25,000 new neurons every minute this week
The site also tells me we are now the size of a mondo Brazil nut which I like better than the prune (what the heck) that the baby counter on the right is showing. lol!!

I haven’t been feeling anywhere near as sick as I have the last month and I do think I’m starting with the crazy emotions. Lately as I’ve been on the way to work on the bus that takes us in, every little thing other people do annoys the heck out of me. I’ve been riding the bus for almost 6 yrs now and never have people gotten on my nerves so much!! Little things like constantly bumping my arm THE WHOLE RIDE IN while I’ve squished myself as close to the window as I possible can, I’m not even that big yet, or how bout the guy who pulled out a bag of potato chips and insisted on switching hands with the crinkly crunchy bag every two seconds on top of all the munching smacking sounds as he ate with his mouth wide open right in my ear. UGH makes me want to turn around and SCREAM an ear full to some of these people!!! Lol thankfully I have been able to hold it together…..so far ;-)
I am enjoying seeing how the baby is progressing. 10 years ago when I had Taylor I was 16 years old and didn’t get to relish in this kind of stuff!! I’m not even sure we had a computer yet back then!! And I was too busy being a teenager trying to finish high school to pick up a baby book. By this time I hadn’t even told my mom and was keeping the fact that I was pregnant hush hush. Once I did tell everyone they gave me the “you ruined your life speech” but I guess I showed them (*turning my nose in the air here, j/k)
Now everyone I tell is super excited and I’m having a lot of fun with it!! I have already starting looking at nurseries, which is another luxury I wasn’t able to take with Taylor.  Don’t get me wrong. Once everyone got over the initial shock that I was pregnant at 16 we all got excited, epically my mom and we got to do fun stuff like shop!!!
Taylor told me last night at the dinner table she’s glad she doesn’t have an old mom ;-) it was too cute!! Oh she has also told me I could have been on the show 16 and Pregnant…I just laughed and told her I could have STARTED that show and be making a nice living off it by now. She is being awesome of course! She hasn’t shown a lot of excitement just yet, but when she was sick a few weeks ago she didn’t want to kiss me because she was afraid she would get me sick. I think once I start showing more and we start shopping for a boy or girl it will become more tangible for her.
I’m starting to look at baby names and am having a tough time with it. We already had a girl named picked out before I even got pregnant. But we both feel like we need to be looking at boy names (hopefully I didn’t just jinx us) Thankfully there is still a long time to think about it, although I'm plenty ready to get this pregnancy show on the road!! I’m ready to be fat with a big baby belly and feel all the little kicks and punches that come with it! Of course I say that now and in a couple months I might be eating those words but oh well!!
Next week is Christmas (MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE) and the week after that I have my next appointment and ultrasound scheduled so until then I hope everyone has a Blessed and Happy Holidays!!!

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Yay!!

This is my last week of class!!! Needless to say I am UBER excited!!! It has been a LONG 2 years!!! And in less than a week I will be done with my Bachelor’s degree!!! This last semester I have been super busy and stressed. I have done nothing but focus on finishing. I unwisely waited till this last semester to do TWO CLEPS!! One in Marketing and one in Biology let me tell you they were no walk in the park!! My goal has been on finishing this semester and this degree. Everything else has been on the back burner. I haven’t read anything other than school books, I haven’t been on fb so much, and I haven’t been blogging…none of that! The only thing I have made time for these last few months was family and school!! It feels good to be able to get back into doing recreational things, like reading a good book!!!
This whole time I have been working on this degree I have been telling myself, ‘this is it, no more school ever after this’ I said the same thing when I was going for my Associates. Of course I may have spoken too soon. I’m already thinking about going back to school. I haven’t made up my mind yet but I have been thinking about it. We’ll see. If everything is set up like I want I may only be getting a month or so off of school. If I have learned anything it’s that no matter what I can do it. I might not like it, but I can do it.
            On another note, no new baby news yet. I’m not feeling as nauseous as I was so that’s good but that’s about the only change. I still don’t FEEL pregnant most of the time. My next appointment with the doctor is at the end of December and hopefully we will be getting another ultrasound. I can’t wait!!!

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Holiday Mail for Heroes and Kid's Helping Kid's Holiday Cards!!



Holiday Mail for Heroes 2010 is here!!

Actually it started was Nov. 11th on Veteran's day. Unfortunately I just found out about it and only have 2 days to get my card in!!
This is the 4th year they have done this!
Cards can be sent to:
Holiday Mail for Heroes
PO Box 5456
Capitol Heights, MD
20791-5456

Or you can go to their website  and make a donation and get one of their cards to send.
I think am going to send one of my own. I just bought a pack of the MUSC children's holiday cards that gives 100% of their proceeds to the children's hospital, and I can't wait to use them!!!
How awesome is that, to be able to touch a stranger's life for the holiday and hopefully make them smile!!  


Here is the info on the Children's Hospital Holiday cards.
They are too sweet!! They are part of the Children's hospital holiday card project Kid's Helping Kid's.

The pack of cards are only $15 for a pack of 16 and all of the pictures are awesome! There are two different packs you can purchase and each one has amazing drawings in it! The cards are on sale until Dec. 31st. 

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Welp I found out last Monday Nov. 8th , IM PREGNANT!!!
I’d been feeling kinda funny for about or week or two. It was one of those feelings that just wouldn’t go away. I think from having Taylor I just knew the feeling. With her I found out because I was getting sick EVERY SINGLE MORNING. This hasn’t happened…yet. My stomach just felt odd. Sometimes after I would eat I would feel a little nauseous. I was been being extra careful at work, since I work around radiation, and told Jason “no” when he asked if I wanted to ride rides at the fair.
I thought maybe it was all in my head, but the feeling wouldn’t go away.
My lady friend that visits once a month was supposed to be making an appearance so I tried to wait for that before I took any test. I thought it should have come around Tue or wed and by Friday still nothing. So on my way home from work I stopped and bought a test. I rushed home thinking Jason was probably going to the gym so I would have plenty of time and whose car is in the driveway when I pull up? My husbands of course.
I really didn’t want him to know I was taking the test, especially if it was false so I left the test in the car and decided to take it the next morning when he went to the gym.
Saturday rolls around and as soon as he leaves I run out to get the test from the car and to my surprise the car is gone!!!! Jason took it because his car was blocked in….AHHH!!!
By this point im just getting frustrated that I have the dang test and haven’t been able to take it yet!!
Sunday was a lazy day and we both stayed home….another day with no test.
Finally Monday comes and since I had the day off I took Taylor to school and by the time I got back Jason had already left for work. I’d put the test in the house the night before JUST IN CASE he took my car again.
As soon as I walked in the door I ran to the bathroom to take the test. I made myself wait the two minutes the direction say to wait before looking at the results and sure enough…..positive.
I crawled back in bed and wrapped my self in covers so I could process the information. Then I cried. They weren’t sad tears. They were scared tears. Scared of starting all over again when Taylor is about to be 11. Scared of the physical pain I still remember from having Taylor. Scared of what Jason was going to say. By the end they were happy tears. I’ve been so afraid of having to have the hysterectomy and not getting to have a child with my husband.


That was weeks ago. By now I have told both my mom and Taylor and his family. Of course we are all excited!! I went to the doctor this past Monday and they told me I was 7 ½ weeks along. My due date is July 12th as of right now. Everything is going well and I haven’t started putting weight on yet, but I certainly haven’t been watching it. I can’t. I crave too much!!! I am nauseated a lot but I never get sick and I just got some vitamin B6 which I understand helps with the sick feeling.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Pink Hair for Hope!!

Shame on me...the month is half over and I'm JUST getting around to posting this.
Needless to say I have been SUPER busy.
Some of my mother-in-law's friends threw a benefit ride this past weekend to help raise money so of course I went and spent all day with them trying to help. They raised over $2000, which I think is awesome considering the accident didnt happen here.
This weekend one of mine and Jason's friends are getting married and Jason is in the wedding, so we'll be busy all this weekend.
It seems like there is always something going on and always somthing to do!!
Anyhoooo....
As everyone already knows, October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month!
The facts:
*1/3 Mammography has helped reduce breast cancer mortality in the U.S. by nearly 1/3 since 1990.
*The ten-year risk for breast cancer in a 40 year old woman is 1 in 69.
*1 in 5 breast cancers occur in women aged 40-49.
 
*Of all the years of life saved by mammography, 40% are for women in their 40s.

*3/4 of women diagnosed with breast cancer have no family history of the disease and are not considered high risk.

*Even for women 50+, skipping a mammogram every other year would miss up to 30% of cancers.

For every 1,000 women who have a screening mammogram:
• 100
are recalled to get more mammography or ultrasound images
• 20
are recommended for a needle biopsy• 5
*Information from MUSC Radiology Department Newsletter



Pink Hair For Hope

SO.CAP. USA Hair Extensions Joins The Fight Against Breast Cancer with Pink Extensions!
The color pink has become almost synonymous with showing support for breast cancer awareness. Now women can wear their support 24 / 7!!  Women can donate $10 or more to The National Breast Cancer Foundation and receive a FREE Pink hair extension graft.
The extension attaches to the natural hair very close to the scalp with 100% keratin, so there is virtually no damage to the natural hair once the extension is removed.

I think this is awesome and I love that the $10 is donated to the Breast Cancer Fondation!! I had an appointment for both Taylor and I to go and have one pink extension put in our hair but the appointment was for last Saturday, the same day as my mother-in-law's event. I ended up having to cancel the hair appoinmtent because the event went WAY over and I felt obligated to stay :  (   soooo Im hoping to reschedule but Stella Nova is one of the few places in Charleston that do it and they are extremely busy afternoons and weekends when im free. We'll see.
are diagnosed with breast cancer


Friday, October 15, 2010

It’s a Beautiful Day- by George Burt

I copied this from George Burt's FB. He was the 4th rider the day my mother-in-law was hit by the drunk IMPD officer.....Thankfully George suffered no physical injuries due to the crash that day but as you can read, what he saw that day will forever be burned into his mind's eye. Obviously the "she" he refers to is my mother-in-law, Mary.....


It’s a Beautiful Day,
Or it would have been!

10:50 a.m.
               
She asks her co-worker/friend if he wanted to go eat Chinese.
He asks if her boyfriend had ridden his bike in that morning and she replies yes
She also laughs and thanks him for hiding her shoes and calls him a crazy ole fool
He laughs, and givers her a Hell Yeah, Bikes and Food, you can’t beat that
Plus,
It is a Beautiful Day!!!!

At that same time and not to far away

He takes his third big sip from the Speedway cup to make room,
He pours more from the bottle into the cup
He takes another sip and decides it is again now strong enough to make him feel right
He returns the bottle back to the Black Bag
He sits back and continues to slip on his drink,
He looks in the rearview mirror to check on his partner, his dog and best friend
He is pleased he has his own patrol car, no checking on him
He takes another big drink feeling better and better and so he takes another
He only wished it did not take as much as it did, to make him feel like he did now

11:05 a.m.

They walk down the hallway to meet her boyfriend
He notices there is another with her boyfriend
He is bald and pretty stout, and he smiles as they approach
Introductions are made, handshakes, hugs, and pats on the back
A common bond made through the thought of being on their bikes with the wind in their faces.
It is a Beautiful Day!!!!

At that same time and not to far away

He takes another long drink, and does it one more time
He looks again at his rearview mirror
He turns the volume up on his radio
He hopes he doesn’t receive a call
He turns up the air, for his partner in the back
He takes another drink, knows he should stop, but he is feeling is too good


11:12 a.m.

They have left the building
They are on their bikes
They feel the wind on their faces
They are talking at each light when they had to stop
Saying,
It is a Beautiful Day!!!!

  

 At that same time and not to far away

His radio blares
He is disturbed
He has to throw his drink away, but has time take one more sip
He tosses the cup out the window, along with the others he has left before
He puts his Patrol car in gear
He reaches for the switch activating siren and lights, don’t need them for this call, but who will know and who would tell

11:14 a.m.


They have gone through Six lights and now have just stopped for the Seventh
They all say to each other one last time,
It is a Beautiful Day!!!!


At that same time and not to far away


His adrenaline makes his high, even higher, as his car goes faster and faster
He passes left and then right and is pissed nobody is moving out of his way,
Don’t they hear his siren?

11:17 a.m.

He hears the siren loud and clear, but he can’t determine from where it comes
He stands up from his bike
He looks left and right, and straight ahead
He looks over his shoulder and finds the source
It is a Patrol Car, moving fast and heading their way
He sits back down, and looks for away to get out of its way
He finds he can’t go forward or to his right
He finds he is blocked both ways
He can’t go left because where would IT go
He follows the Patrol car by his mirrors; first looking at the right one and then the left, boy does IT’s image grow.

At that same time

His heart pounding faster, listening to his siren wail
His siren loud announcing to all, to watch out and part the way
He looks down the road, and wonders why
He sees the images to his front are growing so quickly and why won’t they move
He finally breaks his car hard, the pedal to floorboard
He jerks his car to left,
He hits the concrete barrier where his car would slide on for a hundred feet to rest
It’s damage done to all
He curses and wonders,
Didn’t they hear my siren?
  

11:18 a.m.

He hears the screech of tires
He hears the sound of metal on metal
He feels the wind of the car and bike as they pass by only inches from him
He sees through the dust and wind
His friends tossed and thrown like Rag Dolls tossed in the sky
His friends land in different places from where they were
His friends all maimed

At that same time

He watches in horror
He has hit the bike and its rider sending them to collect the other two.
He is mad and confused asking himself,
Didn’t they hear my Siren?

11:19 a.m.

He sits stunned on his bike, wondering what has just happened to his friends
He then reacts to their needs, by leaving his bike right where it stood
He went to his new friend he just met
He found him on his back, looking up in the sky
He feels for his friend’s life, and then finds another looking for life too

At that same time

He shakes his head to help clear his thoughts
He calls on his radio
He has been in a wreck and it is with injuries but not to him
He is scared now and will demand from them an answer to his question,
Didn’t you hear my Siren?

11:20 a.m.

He goes to her boyfriend and finds him the same
He sees him breathing but still, his life pours out
He hears a moan and a cry
He looks back to see her move
He moves to her, a body conscious
He kneels by her side
He calls her name
He tells her to hold on helps on the way
He wonders why he is left alone to attend to his friends

At that same time

He steps out of his car out into the mayhem
He shouts to the Rider next to his friend
He yells to him,
Didn’t you hear my Siren?



It was suppose to be a Beautiful Day, but an individual decided to drink and operate his patrol car in an unauthorized manner.
His decision cost the life of a new friend I just met 15 minutes prior to the mayhem he caused that day. His decision also caused two of my friends to spend weeks in hospital in pain and continued grief.  We almost lost her twice that day, as the doctors worked on my friend.  We found him in a coma, not knowing when he might come out and whom we would have when he returned and that is still and known.
I had to attend my new friend’s funeral not knowing how his family would feel about me attending.
Thank God, for they opened their arms and wrapped me in their love.  Their love has given me strength to try being their rock during their time of need.
My nights are not my own, only the drugs I take tend to make them quick. I have found myself crying and not really knowing why.  Daily, I ask myself why did I survive and not my new friend. Or, why was I spared the injuries my friends received.
The News media has interviewed me so many times, and I accept their request hoping by doing so will make that day less painful each time I recant that horrible day.
You know most Police cars have a motto or creed that says, To Protect and Serve, that day he decided his habit was more important.
I write, talk, and take up causes because of that day, in hope that I might lessen the pain of my grief of that August day. It seems to work somewhat but not fast enough.  I still find myself crying for no apparent reason.  Triggered by who knows why.
I am but a Man hoping what he has written above, people will understand, though physically injured I may not be, but mentally can I ever heal from what I witnessed that day?  I seen a new friend’s life ebb away, and two others maimed, having to endure what no other should. 

I know my writing skill is poor and I probably broken every English law of writing, but I felt I had to find away to express that day.  So, I say to all, Sorry to those who have taken their time to read the ramblings of an old man.  May God grant you and yours the Peace I seek each and everyday.

George “Diablo Lobo” Burt
A new friend of Eric Wells
An old friend of Mary Mills and Kurt Weekly

George Burt Please note this is a work of fiction.. I dont know if he did drink that day, until it is proven he did, it is fiction...


*This post brings tears to my eyes when I imagine what George saw that day....
I am thankful to report that Mary is getting better every day...
She is now walking with a walker!!
Tomorrow (Saturday) I will be helping her friends here in Charleston who a putting on a benefit ride in honor of Eric, Mary, Kurt, and George.

Kurt's mom, Karen, has been wonderful about keeping everyone up to date on how Kurt is doing. The way I understand it is he is now speaking in some simple sentences. Sometimes they dont understand anything he is saying and other times it comes out plain as day. It is very enouaging for him to be speaking now considering when it first happened no one knew if he would even come out of his coma.  His therapists play cognitive games with him to exercise his brain. He is also getting better everyday and hopefully will continue to do so. Please keep him and everyone in your thoughts and prayers!!

Friday, October 1, 2010

Day by Day

My mother-in-law is getting better everyday. She was finally released from the rehabilitation center she’s been at for the past month. Before she left she did her first interview which is now all over the news in Indy. Since she was released they decided to go take her to see Kurt before they left to go to North Carolina. Kurt has also been slowly getting better and I’m happy to report he’s now speaking in two-three word sentences. This is HUGE!! Mary said in her interview that she was scared he wouldn’t remember her or remember the love that they have shared these past 2-3 years. It’s obvious from the picture the answer she was looking for. They rented an RV to drive her down to North Carolina to live my sister-in-law Aja until she gets back on her feet. A condition of her getting out was that she had to have someone at home that could give her home care. After the accident Aja quit her job so she could help her mom so it was a no brainer that she goes live there. This also puts her closer to us so it will be easier for me and Jason to go visit. A friend of Mary’s is also putting on a bike run here in SC for her. All I know is its October 16th. Ill give more info on that as soon as I get it. Until then enjoy the pics!!


This picture just warms my heart!!


Sorry I haven’t posted more. I have been CRAZY busy!! This is my last semester of class and so it’s a mad dash to the end! I can’t wait to be done and have all this stress off me!! Wish me luck!!

Monday, September 6, 2010

Ride for Justice

Ride for Justice: Thousands in attendance - fox59.com
My sister in law, Aja, is speaking in this clip!!

Unfortunately I was unable to go due to work but from what i hear the benefit ride for justice went VERY well yesterday!!!
Fox 59 reported that the ride raised more than $40,000 for the families of victims, with over 3000 riders!! I am so proud of everyone!! There is no way Indianapolis can ignore all these people!!
Here are a few pics i stole from misc sites and people.
Aja, Will and Jason and Monument Circle

Aja with Eric Wells' brother, Ryan and Mayor Ballard standing behind her before the ride!!

This last one is of a family that was out in their yard as the riders rode past. This one brings tears to my eyes for everything it symbolizes. God Bless.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

My mother-in-law, Mary, is doing well. She is about to be moved to a rehabilitation center where they will continue her physical therapy, which is extremely painful. She is having a really hard time with all of this. Not only because of the physical pain she is in but if you know my mother-in-law, you know she is not a sit-around kind of gal. This woman is on the Go CONSTANTLY. I cant tell you how many times she has been out of the country or away for the weekend just this year!!! Being stuck in her bed depending on other people for EVERYTHING is like being in prison for her!! She is ANGRY!! And understandably so!! I know she will make a speedy recover, that’s just the type of person she is, but please pray for her sanity during this difficult time!


Jason is doing well. I am so proud of him for how he’s handled EVERYTHING so far. He has been the supporting son every mother hopes to raise!! Obviously Mary did something right!!!

He helped hold a rally on Monument circle in downtown Indianapolis last Friday to support the victims and they had over 1,000 people show up!!! He was even on the news!! He was out there with petitions making sure no one will forget what happened that day!!

We are leaving to go back this Friday to be with her. I’m excited to see her. Last weekend I stayed home when Jason went, so I could spend time with Taylor before the new school year started. I’m glad I did because we had a blast shopping together!!

Mary’s daughter, Aja, quit her job so that she can be with her. This will greatly ease Jason’s mind. He’s been really stressing every time he has to leave her.

Kurt is getting better also. I heard last night that he is now responding to some verbal commands. He was squeezing his sister’s hand and even giving the thumbs up!! This is VERY encouraging!! His is a long road also but I am hopeful that one day they will be able to piece their lives back together. And we will be there for them every step of the way.

Love you guys

Kim

Thursday, August 12, 2010

The brighter side

On a much lighter note.....I did my walk of shame yesterday when I came back to work. I ate like crap in Indy and I knew it was going to catch up with me. So with my head held low I walked to the cafeteria yesterday to get my breakfast and I stepped on the scale and.................I'VE LOST ANOTHER 3LBS!!! That puts me right under 15lbs down so far!!!!
I am so surprised!!
We didn't eat much Friday because we were both a ball of nerves not knowing what was happening to Mary.
But by Saturday our appetite was back full force and we were BAD!!! We ate Mexican (hmmmmm) one night with a bunch of Mary's friends (it was the one of the ONLY times we left the hospital and I'm glad we did bc Jason needed a lil break, oh and Mary's friends are all NUTS so it was good to sit and laugh) and Papa John's the next night. Their cafeteria also put out fresh dark chocolate covered strawberries every day, can you see the drool coming out my mouth now!!! You better believe I was down there gettin those suckers two at a time!!!
I did try to watch it a little and would eat somewhat healthy for breakfast and lunch, saving the bad stuff for dinner.
On the way home we didn't eat much either, but I still expected the scale to be brutal on me when I came back.
I jumped on today even though I usually don't like to weigh myself everyday and I've got one more pound to go before I hit my 15lbs down mark!!
I have reached my short term goal!!!
Ideally my long term goal is I  would like to lose another 15lbs or so. IDEALLY. We'll see what happens. I wont beat myself up about it as long as I can maintain what I have already accomplished!! 5 more pounds and I'll be back to what I was when Jason and I started dating!!

This is the most recent picture I have of me and the most beautiful Becca. It was taken about a week or so ago and obviously I am in my work uniform. I'll try to take more pics soon.

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

My mother-in-law

Friday I was at work, excited that my husband and I would be leaving for New Jersey in just a few short hours, when I noticed I had a few missed calls from him. I didn’t think much of it and called him back as soon as I no longer had patients to attend to. In a frantic haste he explained to me that he’d just received a call notifying him that his mother, Mary, and her boyfriend, Kurt, had just been involved in a bad motorcycle accident in Indianapolis, where they live, and they were under the impression that Kurt had not made it.

I called my boss immediately and explained the situation and that I had to leave. Thankfully I had driven into work that day and was able to hop a quick bus from the hospital to my car. I didn’t break down until on the way out one of my coworkers asked me if I was ok and I started thinking of the possibilities, what if my mother-in-law wasn’t ok?

Even though it was a short ride to my car I prayed the whole time on the bus that she would make it through this.

Our car was already packed and ready for Jersey so after stopping to pick up my husband from his job, we hit the road to Indy, without even having to stop at our house for anything.

It was the LONGEST 12 HOUR RIDE EVER!!!!

The whole way we kept making and receiving phone calls to find out exactly was going on. The story kept changing.

First Kurt was dead, then he wasn’t, then he was again. We were so confused.

Finally, word came that both Kurt and Mary were alive but in critical condition and a 3rd motorcyclist had not made it.

The kicker to it all was that it was IMPD COP car who had hit them from behind while responding to a backup call. NOT EMERGENT.

I’ve known Mary for 12 year or so and I know enough about her and her boyfriend to know that they ARE NOT careless motorcyclists. They take riding VERY seriously.

There were 3 motorcycles and 4 people in all, Mary and Kurt were riding together. The others two also worked at Mary’s accounting office and they had all decided to go out for lunch. They were stopped at a red light in the middle of a major intersection when they heard the police siren (This part is all coming from George, the other cyclist that was present but not hit in the accident)

They were in the center lane with a clear turning lane to their left and cars stopped in front of them and to their right. As is Indiana law, they stayed where they were, not able to pull any further to the right or forward due to other stopped cars, and moving into the left turning lane would have only blocked a clear path. They stayed put, assuming he would go around.

I was not there so I have no idea what was going on with the cop right before he hit them. There were reports that he may have been looking down at his computer. Either way he didn’t see the motorcyclists until it was too late and braked at the very last minute. George was quoted in the papers as describing what happened next “was like a tornado picked them up -- bodies and bikes were flying. And then they dropped like they were nothing."

According to George, the cop got out and asked “what, you didn’t hear my sirens?”

George says he went to Eric first because it was obvious he was the one most in need as he was the one hit first and thrown the farthest. When he got to him he felt for a pulse and was able to make out a weak one. Someone from one of the surrounding cars got out and said she was a nurse that would stay with Eric while George checked on the others.

He went to Kurt who had blood coming out every time he breathed. He asked the cop to help him get the motorcycle off Kurt and the cop ignored him so George, full of adrenaline, lifted the bike off himself, with the cop helping only after it had already been lifted off.

George then went to Mary who was lying on her side, awake. She was rocking herself and talking.

We heard most of this after we had arrived in Indy and had spent time with Mary. A few days later we went to the crash site where there was an estimated 66ft of skid marks!! It was unreal to see it in person and listen to a grown man breaking down as he had to retell the story of watching his friends be taken out.



We arrived at the hospital it was 2:30am Saturday morning about 15hours after the accident first occurred. Mary was just coming out of surgery where they put an external fixator in her pelvis. This stabilized the broken bones. Before they were able to take her to surgery to stabilize her pelvis they had to take her to IR, interventional radiology, to give her an embolism because they couldn’t stop the bleeding in her pelvis.

I later leaned that they almost lost her twice when she first came in because of the bleeding in her pelvis.

We stayed all night with Mary and it was SOOO scary to see her with a chest tube and ventilator breathing for her.

We learned that she had two small brain hemorrhages, ribs 1-7 broken on the right side with a collapsed lung, 3 ribs broken on the left side. Both shoulders are broken, her leg and ankle on her right side are broken, her back is broken in the lower region but is not serious. She has a herniated disk at C-4 that they operated on yesterday so that it doesn’t put pressure on her spinal cord and she has possible facial factures and a possible thumb fracture.

Saturday other family started to arrive so Jason was finally able to relax a little. He hardly left his mother’s side all weekend. Mary was able to shake her head yes and no and by Saturday night she would spell things out into our hands to communicate. She would only stay awake for small periods of time and if you asked her what happened she would shake her head that she didn’t remember.

Sunday, I was sitting alone with her while Jason slept and they said they were turning the ventilator off so that she would be breathing on her own and that if she did well they would be able to take it out. She was breathing fine while she was awake but because she was on so many pain killers she would start to doze off every few minutes. Every time she started to fall asleep the monitors would start alarming. She was forgetting to breathe while she was slept. I would have to call out to her every few minutes “Mary, Breath!!” She would take a few deep breaths, enough to shut the monitors up and then fall back asleep and they cycle would repeat.

A few visitors showed up then so I excused myself so I could go grab something to eat and so they could visit with her.

When I came back the curtains were drawn so I stepped around to see a team of doctors and Mary WITH THE VENTILATOR ALREADY OUT!!!! I was so happy I almost cried!!!

Then the real trouble began because THEN she could TALK!! If you know Mary you know why that’s trouble lol!!!

Shortly after that they took out the chest tube and the next day they took her off the critical care unit and gave her a regular bed.

The last day we were there, Tuesday, she was going into surgery for the herniated disk which went well.
Mary Mills
She will still have to be in the hospital for some time and then she’ll have to move to a rehabilitation center so she can learn to walk again and eventually she’ll be able to go home with someone that will be able to constantly help care for her but she will make a full recovery.
Eric Wells
Eric Wells, a former marine, is survived by a beautiful wife. He was 30 yrs old and she is 27. They were about to celebrate their second wedding anniversary and start a family.

Kurt Weekly is still in critical care at Methodist hospital in Indianapolis. He is in a coma but we are all hoping and praying he will wake up soon.
David Bisard

On our way back home yesterday we got word that a blood test was done as protocol on the officer, David Bisard, TWO HOURS AFTER THE ACCIDENT. The results came back that he was OVER TWICE THE LEGAL LIMIT with a BAC of .19!!!! The accident happened at 11:20 on a Friday MORNING and he was already DRUNK AND ON DUTY DOING AROUND 80MPH. Originally they tried to spin it that it was the motorcyclists fault for not getting out of the way and that the officer did everything he could to avoid the accident. But NOT drinking on the job should have been the FIRST thing he did. Even if he hadn’t been drunk he was driving at entirely too high a speed to try to go through a busy intersection.

Obviously the families have lawyers and the Prosecutor’s office is now looking in to pressing charges. David Bisard probably even being placed under arrest as we speak.

Officers sworn to serve and protect are NOT above the law and I ask that everyone pray for ALL involved including HIS wife and children that will now have to suffer from HIS wanton disregard.

UPDATE:
They issued a warrent for the officer yesterday (8/11/2010) and he turned himself in. The set bail at $10k and he was out in 40mins!!!! Now they are testing the blood to "make sure it was his" because the hospital could have made a mistake even though another officer already stated he saw the nurse take the blood from David Bisard and label it and he took it to the evidence locker.
This story just keeps getting crazier and crazier.

Jason flew back to Indy today to be with his mom and to make sure everyone is doing their job on this. They are having a rally at Monument Circle tomorrow (8/13/2010) at 7pm.

P.S
I am one of those lucky people who have an AWESOME relationship with my mother-in-law. I loved her long before I ever married into the family so it was devestating to think she could have been take from our lives. I THANK GOD that he was watching over her that day!!

*Photos from WTHR and Indystar.com

Thursday, August 5, 2010

A year ago today.....







A year ago today my husband's best friend passed away.
He may be gone but he will never be forgotten.
Tomorrow we leave to go to New Jersey for a get together with all of his closes friends celebrating his life!!


RIP JACK MARSHALL 8/5/2009

Monday, July 26, 2010

Slowly but Surely

At the beginning of every week I come into work and cringe at the idea of getting on the scale. I like to weigh myself on Monday’s to see where I’m at. Every week I’m convinced that my horrible eating habits over the weekend are going to catch up with me and somehow I will have miraculously gained back 10lbs!! Today was no exception. I trudged down to the cafeteria, where the scale is so handily kept, on my way to get my morning fix of sausage and egg (protein) and to my amazement I have dropped another pound or two!!! I can’t believe it!!!


Thus far I have lost about 9lbs in about as many weeks. It’s a very SLOW process and the fact that I'm not counting my calories or pushing myself physically at the gym isn’t speeding things up any. But it’s still happening and I couldn’t be happier!! What’s even better is I’m losing the RIGHT way!! I’m not starving myself or doing some crazy fad diet, I don’t eat cabbage soup 3 times a day or 3 cookies with every meal. I simply try to eat better and more often. Instead of eating 3 big meals a day, I eat 5-6 times a day every 2-3 hours. I eat things like eggs and turkey sausage, and fruit for breakfast. For lunch I’ve been eating Progresso soup. Wal-Mart carries Progresso pretty cheap so I’m not only saving money by not buying expensive cafeteria food but eating healthy too, and if I’m still hungry ill pair it with a salad. Then for dinner it’s pretty much whatever I want although usually its chicken or fish with vegetables. And at least 3 times a week I try to go for a mile run around my neighborhood.
I still have a LONG way to go but today's weigh-in gave me hope that ill get there....slowly but surely. It's VERY encouraging seeing the scale tip in the RIGHT direction!!  ;-)

Friday, July 16, 2010

MUSC GETS RANKED


The Medical University of South Carolina ranks among the nation's best hospitals in its treatment of six specialities, according to the August edition of U.S. News & World Report.
The Medical University of South Carolina again has made U.S. News & World Report's list of Best Hospitals in six categories. The hospital has been ranked for the 14th year in a row for its treatment of gastrointestinal disorders.

The Best Hospitals list ranks MUSC for its treatment of gastrointestinal disorders (24), ear/nose/throat disorders (40), kidney disorders (41), gynecologic disorders (47), orthopedics (42) and rheumatology (17).

Out of 4,852 facilities, only 152, including MUSC, made the 2010-11 Best Hospitals rankings.

Founded in Charleston in 1824, the Medical University of South Carolina is the oldest medical school in the South
Friday, July 16, 2010




I can’t express how PROUD I am to work for MUSC. I have been with the hospital for 5 years now and I couldn’t be happier!! Not only do I work at MUSC but I myself also utilize their excellent care for my own healthcare needs!

I can also attest  first hand to their AWESOME gynecologic services!! I have had surgery there and although surgery is never a fun thing (the anesthesia makes me sick), they did their best to make me as comfortable as possible and I was EXTREMELY impressed with my care! If I have the choice I would never go anywhere else for my surgical needs!!!

I work next to the BEST orthopedic doctors that South Carolina has to offer!! One of them even came by yesterday to invite the OR/ER Radiology staff to a celebration party because of all the hard work we do for them.

I am currently working on my Bachelor’s degree from MUSC's University! I feel blessed to affiliated with such a good hospital!!
There are so many students that are trianed and graduate from MUSC before they continue their careers all over the world!!

-Kim Murdaugh RT(R)




Oh........

• MUSC was also named # 20 Pediatrics: Heart & Heart Surgery