My dare yesterday was to call Jason sometime while I was at work and ask him if he was OK and if he needed anything. This was a really easy one. I called and even though he was still sick he said he was fine and didn't need anything (i had gotten him meds for the last dare). On the way home we started to squabble a little bit, but it was a lot easier to keep it under control and not let it get blown out of proportion! This is a step in the right direction!!! I feel like we are becoming friends again instead of two people that happen to live in the same house and that happen to be getting married! I think this book is great for all couples, married or not!!
Lesson 5:
Love is not rude
The Dare:
Ask your spouse to tell you three things that cause him or her to be uncomfortable or irritated with you. You must do this without attacking them or justifying your behavior.
This is another one Jason will probably enjoy. He gets to tell me whats wrong with me and I cant even argue with him about it!!! He'll be in heaven!! lol too bad this book doesn't let me do the same thing to him!!
I'm hoping Jason will choose to read this book also, but I'm going to let it be his choice, I'm not going to make him.
So far the changes that I have made have greatly impacted our relationship and we are only on lesson 5!! I cant wait to see what the rest of the book holds!!!
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